New shelter is haven for victims and their families


By Dave Bezusko



Eighty-one victims of domestic violence, including 38 children, have been housed in the new Soteria House since it opened in April, 2016. Of those victims, only one went back to the perpetrator. The rest, like Roxie McCoy and her four children, pictured here, have found a new start thanks to the staff at Consolidated Care.


“Being at the shelter gave me my life back.”

The words of Roxie McCoy, a grateful mother of four, one summer after an abusive relationship took her way of life from her.

Last June, on the birthday of her 9-year old son, Roxie and her children ranging in ages from 12 to one, found themselves inside the Soteria House, Logan County’s new domestic violence shelter. The facility had just opened thanks in part to your United Way gift. They arrived past midnight after Bellefontaine Police officers had been to their home and referred them to this new resource in our community.

“I was with a guy for 10 years,” Roxie said. “He was a good guy in the beginning. I found out that he was taking money that was to feed the kids and using it on drugs. It got physical a few times. That’s when I was done.”

Things got worse before they got better. Roxie soon lost her waitressing job because she didn’t have daycare.

“You question everything once you get in there,” she said. “Did I make the right decision? Should I have left? I had a change of clothes for my kids and my work uniform. How am I going to make it on my own? Sustain a job? Find daycare? Find help for myself, because I was not in a good place, and I needed to provide for my kids.”

But the compassionate staff of Soteria House, a program of Consolidated Care, worked with Roxie over the course of five months to put the pieces back together. They set her up for daycare so she could apply for a new job, which she got at AGC Glass. They helped her work with Metropolitan Housing to find a new home. Now, Roxie is back on her feet, a perpetual smile on her face, and enjoying life with her four kids.

Donating to help your neighbors

“The people who give to United Way? They’re doing such a good service!” Roxie said. “Even if it’s only $5, $10, $20, that adds up. That’s a pack of diapers for someone in a shelter with a six-month old who can’t find a job because they’re dealing with daycare issues. Or who just got there and all they have are the clothes on their back. Every little bit helps.”

Since Soteria House opened in April 2016, they’ve housed 81 clients, 38 of whom are children. If you, or someone you know is enduring an abusive relationship, know that help is available by calling (937) 404-2365. Roxie recommends it.

“Get out! It’s not worth it,” she said. “So many women think, and I thought, ‘I’m doing something wrong. I’m making him angry.’ That’s not what it is. Some people are just not meant to be in your life for a long time. Angry people – you can’t fix that. That has nothing to do with you. And if you sit there and you allow it to happen over and over, you’re basically condoning their actions and you’re degrading yourself in the process. Women are worth so much more than what we give ourselves credit for. You just have to open your eyes and see that. You have to see the good in you and know that you’re better than the situation that you’re in.”

United Way fights for the health, education, and financial stability of all in Logan County. It’s their mission to facilitate successful agency partnerships that enable a safe, healthy, and caring community. More than just a fundraiser, United Way collaborates with businesses, non-profits, government, and civic organizations to help meet the social service needs of the community.

United Way of Logan County, Inc. is a 501(c) 3 nonprofit organization and is registered with the BBB of Central Ohio. We participate in the BBB Accredited Charity Seal program, which indicates that we meet all 20 of the Standards of Charity Accountability and are noted as an Accredited Charity. The 20 Standards evaluate a charity’s financial accountability, governance and oversight, effectiveness measures, and fundraising and informational materials.

For more information, visit www.uwlogan.org or call (937) 592-2886.

Eighty-one victims of domestic violence, including 38 children, have been housed in the new Soteria House since it opened in April, 2016. Of those victims, only one went back to the perpetrator. The rest, like Roxie McCoy and her four children, pictured here, have found a new start thanks to the staff at Consolidated Care.
http://www.weeklycurrents.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/13/2017/10/web1_ShelterWeb.jpgEighty-one victims of domestic violence, including 38 children, have been housed in the new Soteria House since it opened in April, 2016. Of those victims, only one went back to the perpetrator. The rest, like Roxie McCoy and her four children, pictured here, have found a new start thanks to the staff at Consolidated Care.

By Dave Bezusko

Dave Bezusko is executive director of United Way of Logan County.

Dave Bezusko is executive director of United Way of Logan County.